Wednesday, August 24, 2011

How to love a girl who has a boyfriend

One of our friends subscribers made the following question: Can I use the advice of the school of seduction on a girl who maybe have a boyfriend to fall in love and even to leave her boyfriend to come with me?

Dear Friend: The specific answer to your question is YES . But before declaring victory should be remembered that the art of seduction there is a code of ethics, and this set does not go through the world volándole the bride to all mortals. This is only justified if the girl you really care for a serious relationship and you think may be the true love of your life. In this case no one has the right to steal your happiness, not even her boyfriend.

If after serious thought you have come to the conclusion that it is worth, my recommendation is that you avoid at all costs to express derogatory comments to show you are better than your boyfriend or he is not good enough for her. In doing so she would only make you feel interpreted as envious of his partner, whereupon he will grow as you literally collapse before your eyes. Instead he gave whenever you think is the right man for her.

Imagine the effect it has to say: John is the man for you, he is a good man, one hundred percent dedicated to work. Honestly I admire him because I can not be so, I like contact with people, extreme sports, adventure and travel. In the example above, you are expressing admiration for her boyfriend, so I do not envy you or you're trying to minimize it.

But you're standing in a context that makes it seem dull and cold, while exhibiting great qualities that you alpha are highly attractive to most women. An unconscious level she will compare with it and I find it much more fun and interesting.

Having planted this seed would say: So you'd better have to groom a man like him and not a man like you and I could never be together, we're too different, not work. So, now that I have compared it with her ​​boyfriend and find you're better, you suddenly put it hard and become a challenge. When you say you and I could never be together, she begins to wonder why not? After this you will notice that your choice to you grows. When about to leave her boyfriend to be with you.